The benefits of mediation

The breakdown of a relationship, marriage or civil partnership is often a very emotional and distressing time. Feelings run high and it can be difficult for you to focus on practical issues such as finances and children when you are feeling hurt, shocked, or angry.

You may also feel overwhelmed at the idea of lawyers getting involved and the possible expense that this might involve.

What is mediation?

In these circumstances, mediation is an option for couples to consider. Mediators are trained to help separating couples discuss and agree on the arrangements for their future. This can be for the children or division of finances.

Using a mediator has several advantages. It is cost-effective and relatively quick. It allows couples to talk calmly and privately, each listening to the other. For parents this is particularly important as it paves the way for a more positive co-parenting relationship in the future.

Some mediators are trained to undertake child inclusive mediation so that children can also have their say and feel listened to by their parents.

How we can help

Here at Pinney Talfourd we have a list of preferred mediators that we work with so we can ensure that the mediator you chose is the right fit for you in terms of personality, location, method of working etc.

We can meet with you before you start mediation to give you some general advice about possible outcomes and to manage your expectations. We can also meet with you during the mediation process to discuss any proposals that are to be made or have been made already. 

If you are successful in reaching an agreement in mediation, then we can also assist you in converting that agreement into a legally binding document.